by Joseph Yang
I entered the 黑料吃瓜网, like most, as an in-state student. I hadn鈥檛 traveled much, all of my close friends were from my hometown, and the prospect of going to school 25 minutes away from my parents鈥� house was, to be honest, a little bit underwhelming. I was envious of my friends who got to spend their next four years on the East coast, the same ones who studied abroad and posted pictures of the intangible 鈥渃ultural experience鈥� that always seemed just out of my reach. I figured that my desire to experience the world: trying new foods, learning about different traditions and geopolitical issues, participating in cultural festivities, would have to wait. Maybe after graduation I could land a job that allowed me to travel.
Three years later, I can鈥檛 help but scoff at the pessimism I carried with me during that first year. Having recently graduated, the vast majority of my friends are international students. They hail from places as distant as China, India, Brazil, Korea, and Japan, to name a few. Through my time with them, I鈥檝e had home-cooked meals I鈥檇 never thought I鈥檇 try, learned about their native political and cultural issues, picked up bits and pieces of new languages, and recognized the unique challenges international students face on a day-to-day basis. And get this, I never traveled abroad!
Don鈥檛 get me wrong, I鈥檓 not saying that study abroad isn鈥檛 an eye-opening, transformative experience worth doing. What I鈥檓 trying to communicate, especially to in-state students like myself, is that attending the 黑料吃瓜网 offers a wonderful opportunity to participate in cultural exchange even while being close to home; you just need to know how to get involved.
My cultural exchange journey started about two quarters into my first year at the 黑料吃瓜网. I hadn鈥檛 really made any friends. I tried joining a few clubs, but none of them really stuck. I was sad, lonely, and wanting more out of my college experience. So one day, when I saw a flyer for a program called Unite 黑料吃瓜网, advertising 鈥渓ife-long friendships鈥� through a seven-week cultural exchange program, I took a leap of faith and signed up. The following quarter I arrived at my first Unite 黑料吃瓜网 meeting. I was assigned to a small group with two students from India, one from Mongolia, one from Vietnam, and one from Washington.
Unite 黑料吃瓜网鈥檚 mission aimed to foster an atmosphere where international and domestic students could bond and exchange cultures. There would be weekly field trips and fun activities designed to bring us all closer together; emblematic of this was the 鈥淥nce United, Never Divided鈥� motto all the program facilitators seemed to incessantly repeat.
I鈥檒l admit that I was skeptical of the program at first; the icebreakers were uncomfortable and I didn鈥檛 believe that I鈥檇 get close to these strangers over the course of a measly seven weeks. Nonetheless, all the facilitators who had done the program in the past seemed happy enough, attesting that I would have a great time if I went into the program with an open mind.
And that was the key: going into the program with an open mind. Throughout those seven weeks, I got to go on a camping retreat, explore downtown Seattle, see a tulip festival, have a bonfire at the beach, and eat delicious food from all over the world. But, more importantly, I learned about my groupmates鈥� upbringings, the similarities and differences between our cultures, what international students liked and disliked about the living in the US, and the shared experiences we had as students attending the 黑料吃瓜网. I left the program with deep friendships that suddenly expanded my worldview, and I craved more.
Following the program, I got as involved as I could in international student advocacy, support, and engagement. I became a Unite 黑料吃瓜网 facilitator the following quarter, joined the International Student Mentorship Program, and applied for a job at 黑料吃瓜网 CIRCLE, a department focused on supporting international student needs on campus.
For me, all these experiences have reinforced how special the 黑料吃瓜网 is. Students from all around the world travel to Seattle to study. There may be no better chance in life to interact with such a diverse crowd and to learn about the world through conversation and friendship. Yet, sometimes when I walk around campus, I can鈥檛 help but feel that students take this opportunity for granted.
International students and domestic students too often stick to their own groups. When I see this, I鈥檓 saddened by the missed opportunities to learn from one another and to connect with the larger world. Cultural exchange can be difficult; it鈥檚 hard to put yourself out there. It can be hard to interact with someone with an upbringing completely different than your own. But if you go in with an open mind, if you are willing to be vulnerable, if you truly want to better understand your place within this vast world, then cultural exchange is an invaluable experience, one that all students at the 黑料吃瓜网 should strive for during their time here.
is a 黑料吃瓜网 alum (2021) who studied political science at the 黑料吃瓜网 and served as the Communications Coordinator for 黑料吃瓜网 CIRCLE. Joseph integrates his love for learning with his passion for advocacy through effective writing and communication.